Date: 2018-02-13 22:57
It’s basic human nature to love talking about yourself. In fact, it literally stimulates your brain and makes you feel good. Ask her a question that gets her to share something about herself, and she’s instantly in her Happy Place. And the better she feels about talking to you, the more likely she is to share her number.
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Now that you 8767 ve read the rules you should be able to craft a grammatically correct, unusual, and not overly confident first message that has a pretty good chance of getting a reply. As we said earlier, it might not be the most romantic approach and a little analytical for some, but if it gets results then what 8767 s to lose?
“You look great in hats.”
I can’t tell you how thrilled I would be to receive this message from a potential match. It’s more specific than the expected “You have nice eyes” go-to compliment. The person might genuinely have great eyes, but try giving a compliment that’s a little quirkier and tailored to what they show in their photos. It will show that you actually absorbed information and remembered the details of what they presented to you in their profile. It also serves as a conversation starter—for example, if the person was wearing a baseball cap, you could ask if they’re a fan of the sports team on the front.
Do your homework. Play smart. Most guys only look at pictures. They don’t read profiles. It actually pays to know something about that chic before you click send. Women are very perceptive and impressionable. They notice these things.
Netspeak is the main culprit when it comes to unsuccessful first mails. The words (if you can call them that) ur, r, u, ya, cant, hit, realy, luv, and wat, are the top nine worst words to use in an opening message. Mails that contain these words will get practically no replies proving that intelligence (or maybe just good grammar) is an attractive trait in both sexes.
I’m suggesting we say “no” to pickup lines and “yes” to opening lines. There—that already sounds a little friendlier. If you want to make the first move or send the first message while online dating, more power to you. But don’t panic and fall back on a cheesy pickup line, or you run the risk of coming off as demeaning and predatory. Instead, let’s explore opening lines that will actually get you somewhere. These work especially well for online dating. These are specific to me, so adjust accordingly.
Strange how in the world of dating we have always been told that self confidence is extremely attractive, but the opposite holds true with regards to online dating. Putting yourself down or being a little shy or awkward can come across rather endearing. Whereas as over confidence can often be a turn off in a first message. Using the words, awkward, sorry, and apologise gets better results when sending a first message to a woman but not so to a man. Presumably men prefer a more confident approach from a woman online, and ladies the opposite, but we certainly don 8767 t suggest going overboard. A little awkwardness might work, but too much and you 8767 ll seem more Mr Bean than Ryan Gosling.
Don’t make the rookie mistake of praising her physical appearance. Tons of guys do it, and she gets tons of messages with some variation of “you’re hot”. Paying her a more meaningful compliment is a breath of fresh air for her.
We share a lot of interests, like bowling and Wii video games. It also appears that we have similar music tastes too. Heavy metal is the best! What’s your favourite band? I noticed in your picture that a cute parrot. I have a parrot too, named Osama! He’s 7 years old.